I recently read this article about couples and thought I’d post it for you all. I feel it does a fairly good job of highlighting the complexity entailed in building and sustaining a lasting and meaningful relationship with your partner (whether it involve marriage or not). What I particularly liked about it was how it goes into the individual thought process of wanting and, even to a degree, feeling as though you need to be going in a certain direction with your partner when there are plenty of ignored red flags along the way. Unless properly attended to these flags can build over years and lead to a detrimental relationship. On the other hand, it goes down a sweet path of explaining the beauty in those gut feelings you can have in relationships, as well. This article is a must read for anyone interested in the complexity of relationships and benefits of couples counseling for themselves or others.